Beginner's Guide
Beginner's Guide: Discovering with Love
New to erotic toys? You might be curious, but also a little unsure. That's perfectly normal. This guide is here to help you step by step—calmly, safely, and with respect for your boundaries.
- Start with yourself
Before choosing a product, ask yourself a few questions:
- What am I curious about?
- Do I want something for myself, for us together, or both?
- Do I prefer soft, subtle sensations or something more intense?
There's no right or wrong answer. It's all about what feels right for you.
2. Toys for beginners
A few safe choices to start with:
- A small, soft vibrator
- A simple masturbator or sleeve
- A couples toy that stimulates both him and her
- A blindfold or soft cuffs for light tension
Choose something that doesn't scare you, but rather piques your curiosity. Your first experience should be gentle and positive.
3. Safe, clean and comfortable
- Choose body-safe materials (e.g. silicone) as much as possible.
- Clean your toys before and after use according to the instructions.
- Preferably use water-based lubricant, especially with silicone toys.
- Stop if something doesn't feel right – your body is in charge.
4.Communication with your partner
Will you explore together?
- Discuss beforehand what you are curious about.
- Start slowly, without pressure or expectations.
- In between, ask, "Does this feel good to you?" and listen to the answer.
True intimacy happens when you both feel safe, respected, and free.
5. You may enjoy
Remember : There is nothing selfish, wrong, or weird about enjoying erotic toys.
It's a form of self-care, connection, and enjoyment. You can make yourself important. You can pamper yourself.
You deserve to feel loved, desired, and special—even in your own bedroom.